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September 22, 2025

4 Ways to Get Better at Airsoft

Are you just getting into airsoft? If so, welcome to the club. Airsoft has been steadily growing in popularity around the world, and it’s especially popular in the United States, which has seen an increase in the number of participants and venues in recent years, with more anticipated in the future. 

The popularity of airsoft is great for the game, but not so great for newcomers, who can find entering the airsoft arena a little intimidating. It’s still fun even if you’re not on the winning side, but we all know that everything’s better when you’re at least confident that you put in a good performance. 

Happily, newcomers can rapidly improve their performance just by taking on board a few handy tips, which we’ll outline below. With these, you should find that you’re increasingly proud of your performance every time you leave the venue.

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Take Breaks

One of the easiest ways for players to improve their performance is to take breaks. Many beginners push themselves to the limit by staying in the game for as long as possible, but as with most things, your performance will begin to dip once physical and mental fatigue begin to set in. Airsoft is a lot more demanding than many people think, and you’ll absolutely be better if you’ve given your body and brain the chance to take a breather. You’re not obliged to stay in the game. Take yourself out, hydrate, get yourself together, and then jump back in when you’re ready. 

Comfortable Clothing and Equipment

Airsoft is physically demanding, and you’ll find that things are much easier if you’re wearing comfortable, breathable clothing. It’s all about maximizing mobility while also adhering to the climate (lightweight in summer; base layers in winter). Your clothing and equipment should keep you comfortable while also enhancing performance, so it’s worthwhile adding a tactical chest rig. Take a look at a tactical chest rigs collection to find one that offers the right amount of storage for your gear while also facilitating fast reloads. You’ll find that your performance naturally improves when your outfit has been optimized for your needs. 

Practice Your Movements

Most newcomers focus on their ability to target others, but actually, it’s just as important to avoid being targeted. Not only will your defensive skills make you more difficult to play against, but those skills usually go hand-in-hand with improving your attacking abilities. If you can move with stealth, you will get better. This is something that you can practice at home, or even in a wooded area if you have access and don’t mind getting strange looks from passersby!

Reload at Home
Many beginners struggle with the process of reloading their weapon while in the heat of battle. It’s a tense situation, and it’s hard to do things quickly when you’re feeling the pressure. You can get around this by practicing reloading at home. If it’s a passion, then it’ll be fun. Eventually, it’ll become second nature, and you’ll be able to do it with your eyes closed when out on the field.

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September 22, 2025

How to Make Boating a Fun Activity for the Whole Family

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Owning a boat is something that many people dream of. Having the freedom to get out onto the water and leave behind the stress of work is an amazing feeling. Owning a boat of your own enables you to get yourself out into the open water to enjoy a few hours in the peace and tranquility of the ocean whenever you feel like it.

When your life is busy, time spent with your family is precious, so it’s vital to include them in your newfound love of spending time at sea. This sounds great in principle, but it’s important to ensure that the time spent on your boat is fun for every member of the family. Here are some of the ways you can make boating a fun activity for the whole family:

Choose the Right Boat

The type of boat you choose is going to make a big difference to your family boat trips. Choosing a family-friendly boat is the firsts tep to enjoying lots of fun boat trips together. After all, if everyone is feeling comfortable on board, you’re all more likely to have lots of fun. 

Looking at Sylvan pontoon listings is a great place to start your search for a new boat, as you will find lots of family-friendly options available that are perfect for all your adventures.

Get the Kids Involved in Planning Your Boat Trip

Your kids are far more likely to have fun if they’re involved in planning your next boat trip. Putting together an itinerary and letting kids choose the destination (within reason!) can be a perfect way to plan a trip that everyone will enjoy.

Kids will love the excitement of being involved in the trip planning, and the sense of adventure that this brings. All this trip preparation is also a helpful way to introduce kids to maps and navigation, so as well as being fun, they will also learn some new skills along the way.

Engage Kids With Their Surroundings

With no screens in sight, being aboard a boat is the perfect opportunity to engage kids in plenty of tech-free fun. Encouraging kids to engage with their surroundings, observing everything that’s around them and discussing what they can see is a great way to keep them in the moment and really paying attention. Describing the natural environment and it’s features is a great way to expand kids’ knowledge of the nature and their understanding of the world around them.

Always Bring Food!

One final tip to help make boating a fun activity with kids is to always be prepared with food! Feeling hungry is a major distraction that will prevent kids having a great time and will strongly impact their mood. So, it’s a great idea to pack plenty of snacks and even a picnic meal to enjoy together during your boat trip. Don’t forget to pack drinks too, including plenty of water to keep everyone hydrated in case it’s hotter than expected when you’re out on the water.

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October 14, 2024

N I N E

This one hurts a little bit. Nine. NINE. You like to remind me that this is your last single-digit birthday, and I tell you to please stop. You very quickly shout “no!” paired with that contagious giggle of yours. 

I see you growing up, and it’s both beautiful and a little terrifying. A little painful. Things feel harder now. You don’t just need my help to tie shoes or to open a tightly wrapped toy. You need help understanding loss, mistakes, jealousy, anger. You want to know about the whole world, but are still young enough that I feel the need to shield you. You love academia – still a fantastic student and just as eager to go to school every single morning, not only to see your friends, but to LEARN. How you love to learn. In fact, you love it so much, you say you want to be a teacher when you grow up.

Your heart is so big. Your light is so bright. You are kind, endlessly full of quirky energy, and always ready to have a good time. Always the performer, your favorite place is on a stage, and you have added a cheer floor to the mix this year.  You are strong, and work hard to get better at the things you love. You are a voracious reader, especially of graphic novels. You love Taylor Swift and the Descendants, and I can find you creating your own choreography anytime I pass by your room. You love playing with makeup, Kuromi (and anything you consider “emo”), and learning new acro tricks. You started to travel the world with us, and can’t wait to continue to add stamps to your passport.

What I love the most is that you know EXACTLY who you are, and you are not ashamed of it in the least. You proudly state that you are a nerd and enjoy being every bit the individual you are at only nine years old. Some days are hard. Very, very hard. We are painstakingly honest with you about your ADHD, and I know you chose me to challenge me, and help me become better. I tell you every single day that you are my best friend and that we are a team. You may be an only child, but you are the furthest thing from alone. You have so many people that love you, and believe in you. 

Something about this year feels big, I can see you changing. With all the changes: from PJ Masks and Mickey Mouse Clubhouse to Lululemon and Sephora, remember to never change your heart. Your soul. Do not change for one single soul. Not even for me. Not for one minute. 

Don’t forget: to me, you are perfect.

Happy birthday, moon. Cheers to new adventures ahead!

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October 14, 2023

E I G H T

Every year these just get more and more surreal. You are EIGHT. Someone said, “once they turn 8, that’s it. They are no longer little.” And I see it: in your face, in your interests, in the way you are trying to understand the world around you, but I don’t see it in your heart. It’s so big and innocent. It’s so kind and soft. It may be my favorite thing about you, but honestly there are so many it’s hard to pinpoint. 

You’re quirky and unique. You are hyperactive, bubbly and silly: always ready for a good time. You’re wickedly smart. You feel everything so deeply. You are a wonderful friend and are always there to support  and help them believe in themselves. You love family and tell me you are going to have a big one when you are older, and move to California (thanks for letting us move right next to you though). You’re so determined, and thus, so hard on yourself. I wish you could see what I see. 

You still love every minute of performing, whether it’s dancing or acting. You want to learn how to play the ukelele and the drums. You say you want to be a gaming YouTuber when you grow up, but you are starting to be heavily drawn to design + photography, like daddy. I love your imagination – you have such a creative mind and a free spirit. You love to travel and to experience new things (as long as they aren’t roller coasters). You live for storytelling: reading books, watching movies or making up your own. You love shopping and going to Starbucks + fro-yo. You watch football with daddy and cheer for the niners along with him. 

Baby girl, you are infinite. If you only knew the surge of love I feel every time you smile, you speak in that animated tone, you sleep perfectly holding your stuffies in bed, or when you…are just being you. I thank the universe every single day for you. That we are lucky enough to have been given you, and the gift of watching you grow. 

I love you more than anything in this world. Happy birthday, moon 🌙  I have a feeling eight is going to be great. 

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October 14, 2022

Seven.

With every one of these posts, the reality of the number I type gets fuzzier and fuzzier. Seven. Seven. Seven! 

Luna, I can say with 100% certainty that you are my world. Watching you grow has been such a gift. You are a total goofball and love to be silly. You continue to adore the arts and tell me you are going to dance forever and attend theater camp every summer. You now love baking and gaming simultaneously. You sing and make up your own songs, which I love overhearing when you think no one is listening. You are kind, but tough. You are sensitive but fiery. You vibrate with love and compassion. You can put together a mean outfit (and casual cosplay), your imagination runs wild. You are a great reader and an excellent student – you tested as gifted and are excelling in your more challenging classes. I’ve been able to share some of my favorite childhood movies with you over popcorn on the couch: experiencing them again through you is such an underrated pleasure.

But also…you challenge me. You ask all the tough questions now. You want to know about everything. But your emotions are still catching up. You want to understand the world around you, but it isn’t always easy to digest. Your frustration tolerance can be low and it’s taught me more patience and a lot about my own pitfalls as a person. You want to do it all and do it well, and teaching you about work ethic can be difficult. But despite our bumpier days, we always manage to end our days hugging, snuggling and kissing each other. 

You are complex, beautiful and radiant. You contain multitudes and even though it seems like a big number to your mama, you are only seven. The world isn’t ready for you, but I am. I can’t wait for every single second.

Happy birthday to my magical creature, my unicorn, my lion, my moon.

I love you with everything in me.

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